阅读下面短文，从短文后各题所给的四个选项（A、B、C和D）中，选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项，并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
Just listen
I think  the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our  16 ，and especially if it’s given from the  17 ．When people are talking，there’s no need to do anything but  18    them．Just take them  19 ．Listen to what they’re saying．Care about it．Most times caring about it is even more important than  20  it．
One of my patients told me that when she  21  to tell her story，people often  22  to tell her that they had once had something just like what happened to her．Her pain became a story about themselves．  23  she stopped talking to most people．It was just too  24 ．We connect through listening．When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand，we move the  25  of attention to ourselves．But when we listen，they know we care．
I have ever learned to  26  to someone crying by just listening．in the old days I used to reach for the tissues （纸巾）  27  I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them  28 ，to take them out of their   29  of sadness and pain. Now I just listen．When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there  30   them．
This  31  thing has not been that easy to learn．It certainly went against everything I had been   32  since I was very young at school．I thought people listened only because they were too  33  to speak or did not know the answer．A loving silence often has far more   34   to connect than the most well-intentioned  35 ．

A．introduction B．instruction C．attention D．relaxation

A．head B．memory C．mind D．heart

A．talk to B．listen to C．object to D．stick to

A．in B．up C．off D．away

A．denying B．remembering C．questioning D．understanding

A．managed B．tried C．hoped D．expected

A．encouraged B．interrupted C．discouraged D．urged

A．Eventually B．Immediately C．Completely D．Especially

A．impolite B．meaningless C．lonely D．selfish

A．middle B．focus C．center D．choice

A．respond B．compare C．link D．regret

A．unless B．if C．until D．when

A．down B．away C．in D．off

A．experiment B．mixture C．judgment D．experience

A．with B．against C．for D．among

A．complex B．simple C．complicated D．single

A．mentioned B．published C．taught D．proved

A．shy B．greedy C．active D．proud

A．strength B．energy C．power D．force

A．gestures B．praise C．criticism D．words