阅读短文，根据括号中的汉语意思填入单词，使短文意思完整、通顺。每空一词。
I remember when I was young, my parents used to focus on（关注）everything I did. I liked wearing bright red c , but they said the colour was too sharp. I loved listening to rock and roll, but they said it was too n . I hated eating vegetables, but they said they were good for my h .
Later, I studied at a boy’s school. My parents always asked me to study hard. I felt stressed. Every night, I asked myself, “What’s wrong with me?” My parents always tells me that the things I do are b .I gave up many things I liked doing. My life was not as c  as my friends’ lives.
I studied psychology（心理学）when I was at university. I got very good marks, b  I still did not understand why my parents were so strict.
Then I got married and had two c . I heard myself tell them, “Don’t talk on the phone so much! You should focus on your school work. Use your f  time to read…” I began to understand my p . They told me what to do because they cared, just as I told my children what to do because I cared.
Young people, behind all the a  your parents give you, what they are really saying is, “We care about you and we love you.”