When my parents were alive，they were not very rich．Yet they helped their two older      time after time．When Daddy passed away，his notebook showed debts       from several of his children．I was not among them．I      borrowed money and when I did，I set a repayment plan and      to it．It was a matter of       with me．I couldn’t stand owing my parents-or anyone else-mmoney because I watched them      to help out my older sisters when they were in financial difficulties themselves．
These days，after the death of my parents，I am one of those people who can be      to for help when they need it．Just as I can’t stand     other people money，I can’t stand saying no to whoever needs help．I don’t      helping others，but I would be more than glad if they would make a(n)      to handle things themselves，perhaps by doing some      planning-like planning not to speend money they don’t have!
Being ready to help others is a      ，but sometimes the result will be     to what you expect．I      remember as a child what my father always said， “If at first you don’t succeed，try，try again!” Helping my children too often has      them from learning to keep trying．Use your     ：who among my children will      to walk if I supply the money to buy a car? Helped often，my children lost gradually the ability to      problems themselves．
In most        ，when people find you can      help，they will ask you more and more．That's human，you know．

A．sons B．daughters C．brothers D．sisters

A．absent B．apart C．due D．different

A．always B．seldom C．often D．never

A．stuck B．attached C．agreed D．belonged

A．pleasure B．courage C．pride D．sorrow

A．struggle B．happen C．intend D．move

A．referred B．turned C．seen D．attended

A．cheating B．donating C．1ending D．owing

A．enjoy B．mind C．1ike D．miss

A．comment B．mess C．excuse D．effort

A．financial B．flexible C．typical D．particular

A．deed B．deal C．virtue D．task

A．contrary B．essential C．potential D．necessary

A．can B．may C．shall D．must

A．banned B．protected C．prevented D．freed

A．aHn B．leg C．body D．head

A．wait B．urge C．threat D．choose

A．solve B．assess C．seek D．analyse

A．affairs B．choices C．cases D．events

A．obtain B．attain C．provide D．prefer