You may be surprised to see “making sure children never suffer” as a mistake. The following       may help you understand how rescuing children from all suffering       weakness.
A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly         to emerge from its chrysalis(蛹）. He decided to          the butterfly. So he peeled the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The little boy was so             to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off into the sky. Then he was horrified           he watched the butterfly fall to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle           to keep flying. In fact, the butterfly’s struggle to            the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger.
Like the little boy,            too often want to protect their children from struggle in the           of love. They don’t realize that their children need to struggle, to experience            , to deal with disappointment, and to solve their own problems. Only in this way          children strengthen their emotional strength, become             and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will meet throughout their lives. Children experiencing sufferings can             the ups and downs of life.
However, it isn’t helpful either in this case when parents              lectures(训斥), blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers            to say, “Stop crying and acting like a spoiled boy. You can’t always get what you want.” These       Instead, parents can offer loving support. You can say, “Don’t lose           . Be brave! You will succeed if you try again.” Then comes the tough part—no       and no lectures. Simply allow him to discover that he can           his disappointment and figure out what he can do to get  what he wants in the future.

A．saying B．story C．proverb D．experiment

A．damages B．burns C．experiences D．creates

A．Turning B．devoting C．struggling D．coming

A．kill B．feed C．help D．rescue

A．moved B．excited C．puzzled D．depressed

A．until B．since C．before D．as

A．power B．energy C．strength D．force

A．break away from B．do away with C．get along with D．come up with

A．teachers B．parents C．relatives D．friends

A．case B．charge C．name D．course

A．Friendships B．scholarships C．relationships D．hardships

A．should B．do C．can D．are

A．Warm-hearted B．strong-willed C．absent-mind D．cold-blooded

A．expect B．predict C．survive D．avoid

A．add B．adapt C．devote D．contribute

A．pretend B．happen C．tend D．seem

A．Inspiring B．discouraging C．interesting D．touching

A．heart B．face C．sight D．weight

A．Parking B．smoking C．drinking D．rescuing

A．get through B．get over C．get across D．get away