We all want to live the life we dream of． However， at times， some negative（ 消极的） ideas may stop us． Hope the following suggestions can help to ignore those（1） 　　and go ahead．

Do What We Can Control

One thing we can control is doing what we can﹣eating healthily，exercising，reading，and getting enough sleep．Doing the right things can help（2） 　　to achieve the most happiness．Also，it can make us move on in the（3） 　　direction．However，we should also accept that there are many things we can't control．

Take Calculated（预料到的） Risks

Success doesn't come（4） 　　risks．We all have to take risks in life，but try to make sure those risks are calculated．For example，you are working at a job that you hate，and you are dreaming of giving it up and（5） 　　your own business．The thought is a start．But one day， you can't stand your job any more，so you leave it even though you haven't really had a plan． This is such a big risk that it will probably make you（6） 　　want to take a risk again． So just start with a small risk．

Don't Be Afraid of Failure

Thomas Edison is one of the greatest inventors in history． However， he（7） 　　many times．Did you know Edison created an electric pen？A ghost machine？ Probably not．Well，that's because they were complete failures．But those failures put him one step（8） 　　to success．Think of failures as milestones（里程碑） towards success．