Some parents are used to doing almost everything for their children． They see their older children as babies all the time! It can be a very common problem in China， because most parents only have one child in China． Some parents care so much about the safety of their children that they are afraid to let them go anywhere or do anything by themselves． So their children fail to learn social skills and become more dependent（依赖的）on them!

    In fact， no children really enjoy being looked after by their parents all the time． No parents would be happy knowing that． Because of too much care， their children don't know anything about the world． Children need their own time to grow into adults and to learn how to deal with problems． Too much care damages their fun when they are growing up． And when suddenly they can't depend on their parents， these children will be in a big trouble!

    It's nice that parents show their care to their children． It's nice that children know that their parents' care is out of love． And it will be nicer if the children let their parents know how much love they really need and how much love is too much．

（1）According to the writer， the common problem in China is that　　．

A． many children don't like to go to school   

B． some parents do almost everything for their children

C． some parents don't let their children go anywhere

（2）Most Chinese children know little about the world because　　．

A． their parents take too much care of them    

B． most parents have only one child

C． they are too young

（3）The underlined word "them" in Paragraph 1 refers to （指代）　　．

A． children

B． parents

C． teachers

（4）What does the writer really want to tell us？　　

A． Children don't need any love．     

B． Parents should give children as much love as possible．

C． Parents should let their children do things themselves．