Listening, really listening, can improve communication and build respect with others. Communication begins by listening and then suggesting that you hear what the person is saying.
This can be recognized by focus or eye contact, body language, and reflective listening.
Focus (Eye Contact)—Focus means that you are looking directly at the person speaking and not looking off to one side or continuing to do something else. You are focused on what is being said; the speaker is the center of attention. Listening attentively is essential for positive communication.
Listening Without Interrupting—Does your body acknowledge(承认) that you are listening? Use smiles, nods, and expressions of understanding to communicate to the speaker that you are listening. It is not necessary that you agree or disagree at this time. It is more important for the person speaking to know that his or her words are respected. This strengthens communication.
Reflective Listening—Reflective listening involves hearing the feelings and meanings of the speaker. It is a re-statement (in different words) of what the speaker said. You, in essence, mirror the words of the speaker and rephrase them back to the speaker, checking for accuracy(准确)of understanding. This process affirms the speaker, indicates a respect of the person, and shows that you understand the speaker’s message. Through careful reflection of the speaker’s words, you can make clear the message and build mutual(相互的) understanding. Through reflective listening and the careful exchange of words, we learn that other people have important feelings and opinions which we need to consider. Learning to understand the importance of all ideas, not just our own, can lead to successful resolution of problems and mutual respect.
The best way to build respect with others is _____.
A.to look directly at the person speaking |
B.to listen to the speaker attentively |
C.to interrupt the speaker when necessary |
D.to use expressions of understanding |
What strengthens communication with the person speaking?
A.Making him or her know that his or her words are respected. |
B.Expressing agreement or disagreement in time when listening. |
C.Repeating his or her words from time to time. |
D.Listening instead of saying anything. |
Reflective Listening is aimed to _____.
A.show you are not absent in mind |
B.make sure the speaker’s words are correct |
C.checking for accuracy of understanding |
D.express your own ideas without delay |
April 27 is Take Our Daughters to Work Day in Britain. Started at first in the United States and brought to Britain in 1994, Take Our Daughters to Work Day has become a special day for girls between 11 and 15. On that day thousands of girls take a day off school and go together with one of their parents to their work places. The purpose of this day is to broaden girls’ horizons and raise their self-confidence.
For many years people have thought that boys can do better than girls in society. But actually, “girls can be whatever they want to be just like boys, whether it is a pilot, a nurse or a chief executive,” says the chairman of Our Sons and Daughters Charitable Trust, an organization which supported the activity of the Day. “Now the girls have a close look at what their parents are doing and this may help them to be more self-confident when they are faced with a choice of work.”
Schools and many companies support the activity too. Palmers Green High School for Girls, in north London, has made the Day a necessary part of career education.
Zarina Bart, 15, from Palmers Green, went with her mother to her lawyer’s office on this year’s Take Our Daughters to Work Day. She found it interesting to see her mother at work. “It’s really strange seeing Mum at work — running around, getting serious and telling people what to do.” She has always liked this idea of going into law and thinks it likely that she will follow in her mother’s footsteps. Having a chance to see how her mother works has given her more self-confidence.
Experts believe that girls with higher self-confidence aim higher and are more likely to be successful in life. Parents have the most important effect on the confidence of teenage girls. If parents believe in their daughters and show examples both at work as well as at home for them, this will give a lot of help to girls. Take Our Daughters to Work Day is surely a step in the right direction.
What is the topic of this passage?
A.Raising daughters’ self-confidence. |
B.Take Our Daughters to Work Day. |
C.Equally between boys and girls. |
D.Following mothers’ footsteps. |
It can be inferred from Paragraph 2 that ________.
A.women pilots are popular in Britain |
B.girls are sure about their future jobs |
C.people have wrongly believed that girls can do as well as boys |
D.for many years boys have had a relatively wider choice of work |
According to the passage, which of the following is TRUE?
A.Take Our Daughters to Work Day is British in origin. |
B.Palmers Green favors Take Our Daughters to Work Day. |
C.On the Day children are taken to their parent’s work places. |
D.Parents in Britain show good examples both at work and at home. |
After her experience on Take Our Daughters to Work Day, Zarina felt ________.
A.confident about finding a job in the future |
B.strange to watch her mother working in the office |
C.sure about what to choose as her future career |
D.interested in doing the same job as her mother |
The author’s attitude towards the Day is ________.
A.favorable | B.unclear |
C.critical | D.neutral |
I had to knock on the taxi to get his attention.Finally,the driver,a man about 60,looked up from behind the wheel and apologized,“I’m sorry,but I was reading a letter.” He sounded as if he had a cold or a cough.
Since I was in no hurry,I told him to finish his letter.He shook his head,explaining that he had already read it several times and almost knew it by heart.Curious,I asked whether it was from a child or maybe a grandchild.“This isn’t family,”he replied.“though he might just as well have been a regular member of the family.Old Ed and I grew up together.”
They were always friends.But since he moved away from the neighborhood 30 years ago,it’d generally just been postcards at Christmas time between them.A couple of weeks ago,Ed died.“I should have kept in touch.” He repeated this,more to himself than to me.To comfort him,I said sometimes we just didn’t seem to find the time.“But we used to find the time,” he said.“Take a look.” He handed the letter over to me.
The first sentence “I’ve been meaning to write for some time,but I’ve always delayed it.” reminded me of myself.It went on to say that he often thought about the good times they had had together.When I read the part where it said “Your friendship really means a lot to me,more than I can say because I’m not good at saying things like that”,I found myself nodding in agreement.
We had gone several kilometers and were almost at my hotel, so I read the last paragraph: “So I thought you’d like to know that I was thinking of you.” And it was ended with “Your Old Friend, Tom.”
“I thought your friend’s name was Ed,” I said.
“I’m Tom,” he explained. “It’s a letter I wrote to Ed before I knew he’d died. I never put it in the mailbox. I guess I should have written it sooner.” His face was pale as he wiped his eyes with a handkerchief.
When I got to my hotel room I didn’t unpack right away.I had to write a letter and post it.
Who wrote the letter?
A.Tom |
B.Old Ed. |
C.The author. |
D.The driver’s grandchild. |
It can be inferred from the passage that the driver regretted_____.
A.missing Ed’s funeral |
B.moving away from his neighborhood |
C.forgetting to send Ed Christmas cards |
D.not being able to keep in touch with Ed |
From Paragraph 4,we learn that the author _______.
A.often fails to write to his friends |
B.has no intention to write to his friends |
C.had many great moments with his friends |
D.was good at expressing his feelings to friends |
What message does the passage probably try to convey?
A.Comfort your friends when they are feeling down. |
B.Life is unpredictable so live each day as if it were your last. |
C.Remember to always mail your letters after expressing your words. |
D.Always make time to value and experience your lasting friendships. |
Some kinds of mental skills naturally decrease as people get older. Yet research seems to show that some training can improve such skills. A recently published study also appears to attest that the good effects of training can last for many years after that training has ended.
Researchers at Johns Hopkins University in Maryland wanted to learn how long memory and thinking skills would last in older people who were trained to keep them. The people were part of the ten-year research project. They were taught methods meant to improve their memory, thinking and ability to perform everyday tasks.
More than 2,800 volunteered for the study called ACTIVE — short for Advanced Cognitive Training for Independent and Vital Elderly. Most were studied when they were more than 70 years old.
The volunteers took one of several short training classes meant to help them keep their mental abilities. One class trained participants in skills including how to remember word lists. Another group trained in reasoning. A third group received help with speed-of-processing — speed of receiving and understanding information. A fourth group — the control group did not get any training.
Earlier results had established that the training helped the participants for up to five years. Now, leading study writer George Rebok says, the research showed most of the training remained effective a full ten years later.
Professor Rebok and his team found that the people trained in reasoning and speed-of- processing did better on tests than the control group.
“We are wondering whether those effects which endured over time would still be there ten years following the training, and in fact, that's exactly what we found.,,
The effect on memory, however, seemed not to last as long. Still, the old people in any of the three classes generally reported less difficulty in performing daily activities than the control group.The total training time for the older people was between 10 and 15 hours.
Which statement is false according to the text?
A.This kind of training can only have effects on people for a few years. |
B.The people were trained during a period of ten years. |
C.Most of the people who were studied were more than 70 years old. |
D.The first group were trained how to remember word lists. |
How would the old in the second group perform after receiving the trauung?
A.Remember more words. |
B.Understand information more quickly. |
C.Act as poorly as before. |
D.Perform daily activities better. |
What does the underlined word "attest" in the first paragraph mean7
A-Affect. B. Deny.
C. Prove. D. Improve.
Which of the following can be the best title for the passage?
A.Some Kinds of Mental Skills Naturally Decrease. |
B.Mental Training Helped Elderly Stay Sharp for Years. |
C.Four Groups of Old People Were Trained Mentally. |
D.A Ten-year Research Affects Elderly. |
I call my story the story of a bad boy, partly to distinguish myself from those faultless young gentlemen, and partly because I really was not an angle. I may truthfully say I was a friendly, impulsive(易冲动的)teenager. I didn’t want to be an angel. In short, I was a real human boy, such as you may meet anywhere in New England.
Whenever a new scholar came to our school, I used to ask him “ My name’s Tom Bailey; what’s your name?” If the name struck me favorably, I shook hands with the new pupil cordially, but if it didn’t, I would turn and walk away, for I was particular on this point.
I was born in Rivermouth almost fifty years ago, but, before I became very well acquainted with that pretty New England town, my parents moved to New Orleans. I was only eighteen months old at the time of the move, and it didn’t make much difference to me where I was, because several years later, when my father proposed to take me North to be educated, I had my own view on the subject. I instantly kicked over the little boy, Sam, who happened to be standing by me at the moment, and declared that I would not be taken away to live among a lot of Yankees! You see I was what is called “ a Northern man with Southern principles,” I had no recollection of New England: my earliest memories were connected with the South. I knew I was born in the North, but hoped nobody would find it out. I never told my schoolmates I was a Yankee, because they talked about Yankees in a scornful way which made me feel that it was quite a shame not to be born in the South.
And this impression was strengthened by Aunt Chloe, who said, “There wasn’t no gentlemen in the North no way.”
With this picture of Northern civilization in my eye, the readers will easily understand my terror at the bare thought of being transported to Rivermouth to school, and possibly will forgive me for kicking over little Sam, when my father announced this to me. As for kicking little Sam, I always did that, more or less gently, when anything went wrong with me.
My father was greatly troubled by this violent behavior. As little Sam picked himself up, my father took my hand in his and led me thoughtfully to the library. He appeared strangely puzzled on learning the nature of my objections to going North.
“Who on earth, Tom, has filled your brain with those silly stories?” asked my father calmly.
“Aunt Chloe, sir, she told me.”
My father devoted that evening and several evenings to giving me a clear account of New England: its early struggles, its progress, and its present condition. I was no longer unwilling to go North; on the contrary, the proposed journey to a new world full of wonders kept me awake nights. Long before the moving day arrived I was eager to be off. My impatience was increased by the fact that my father had purchased for me a fine little Mustang pony, and shipped it to Rivermouth two weeks before the date set for our own journey. The pony completely resigned me to the situation. The pony’s name was Gitana, which is the Spanish for “gypsy”, so I always called her Gypsy.
Finally the time came to leave the vine-covered mansion among the orange-trees, to say goodbye to little Sam(I am convince he was heartily glad to get rid of me), and to part with Aunt Chloe. I imagine them standing by the open garden gate; the tears are rolling down Aunt Chloe’s cheeks; they and the old home fade away. I am never to see them again!
The underlined word “cordially” in Paragraph 2 most probably means “________”.
A.sincerely | B.unbelievably |
C.officially | D.closely |
The second paragraph is intended to _______.
A.support Tom’s opinion that he is a “faultless young gentlemen” |
B.show just how much confidence Tom possesses |
C.contradict other people’s belief that Tom is not a well-behaved, friendly boy |
D.provide an example that Tom is friendly and not an angel |
Tom Bailey’s feeling on moving to Rivermouth can best be described as _______.
A.cold, as he was too young to know any better |
B.unwilling until his father corrected his misunderstandings about life in the North |
C.angry because he would be forced to leave his pony, Gypsy, behind |
D.excited until he realized that he would have to part with Aunt Chloe and little Sam |
It can be inferred from “a Northern man with Southern principles” that ______.
A.Tom is a Yankee, unwilling adapting to a Southern lifestyle |
B.even though Tom now lives in the South, he is proud of his Northern heritage |
C.Tom has successfully subscribed to some Northern values and some Southern values |
D.although Tom was born in New England he liked the way of life and culture in the South |
The other day, I noticed a message on a friend’s page. It made me very sad. She says she is the one
who reaches out to people, but rarely do they reach out to her. So, after communicating with her for a while, I began to challenge my friends. “Contact someone right now. Send messages or call someone who you haven’t spoken to for a while, or who you only talk to when they message or call you. Let someone who may feel alone in the world right this moment know that they are not alone. That is my challenge to you. Please do it , and let me know once you have. Either by calling me back, or by sending me a message. Be the change that you want to see in the world. ”
The response was great. 28people liked my post, another 10 posted that they did, and I got about a dozen messages telling me that they did. And there was one very special message:
“I just want you to know what has happened. That day, I sent a message to a friend who I hadn’t heard from for a while. She and I talked for a whole day back and forth on messages and then on the phone. She said she was so incredibly sad. Nobody has spoken with her in two weeks. By the tone of her voice, and by the conversations we were having, I think she was about to take her own life(自杀). After our conversation, she has agreed to talk to someone. Your message of kindness has saved her. I can’t wait to tell you how thankful I am for people like you in the world, who care when nobody else will. I am proud to call myself your friend. Thank you! ”
I didn’t quite know what to say after reading the message. I was wondering how best to use it for greater good. I decided that sharing what we have done is the most powerful way. I know that I am a cheerleader when it comes to making the world a better place with kindness, because if I help someone, it makes me feel better. I do it because I need to feel better.
What made the author unhappy?
A.She can’t reach out to anyone. |
B.No one responds to her friend. |
C.None of her friends contacts her. |
D.She has no time to visit her friends. |
What did the author challenge her friends to do?
A.Turn to their friends for help. |
B.Visit their families and relatives. |
C.Contact someone in need of help. |
D.Share their problems on their page: |
What do we know about the special message?
A.Someone was saved by her friend. |
B.People were too busy to talk with others. |
C.The girl was sad because no one liked her. |
D.The author helped her friend by calling her. |
Which word can best describe the author?
A.Determined. | B.Cold-hearted. |
C.Stubborn. | D.Inspiring. |
I have two sons.They are as different as night and day.My youngest is sweet, loveable, easy-going, and finds joy in everything.My oldest we’ve nicknamed the “Evil Genius” is ambitious, self-confident, and suffers no fools.
Whenever we mentioned Santa my husband and I were rewarded with major eye rolling and deep sighs from my oldest.At first we both tried to ignore it.
We both knew that our eldest had figured out the big secret.But I’d be damned(指责) if he was going to ruin it for his six-year-old brother who had plenty of Santa-loving years ahead of him.I looked at my husband in the eye and said, “I’ll handle this.” to which he responded “Okay just be careful because I’m not sure he knows - he might just be acting like it.” But I knew.And I had it in my mind that he was about to break his younger brothers spirit and break the news to him.I was afraid he was going to take the Christmas spirit away from my sweet innocent youngest and stamp all over it.I had to protect him.I needed to control this now before it got out of control.I rushed into the play room where my oldest was playing alone.I looked him dead in the eyes and said: “Well you know Santa isn’t real, right?” And as I stared at my eight-year-old son for what seemed like a long time of silence, his eyes started to fill with tears. And a tear dropped down his cheek when he screamed out, “He’s not?”
“Um well it’s not that he’s not real (shut up you idiot- stop saying he’s not real), but he doesn’t really make and deliver all the toys.Dad and I get some of them for you.So he’s real.He’s just got a little help from us.”
The Evil Genius wasn’t buying it.He just sat there looking at me with an expression of doubt.
You know when you make a terrible mistake but you can’t stop yourself from making it worse? That was me because I just had to know.I had to know why he had seemed to be over Santa. So I asked him why he rolled his eyes and sighed every time his father and I mentioned Santa, to which he replied that kids at school had been saying Santa wasn't real but that he still thought he was.
What’s the best title for the passage?
A.Two different sons |
B.Santa secret given away |
C.Protecting one, ruining the other |
D.Making a mistake worse |
What did the writer conclude when “Evil Genius” rolled his eyes and sighed?
A.“Evil Genius” had discovered Santa was not real. |
B.“Evil Genius” had broken the secret to his younger brother. |
C.“Evil Genius” had passed his Santa-loving years. |
D.“Evil Genius” had been influenced by his classmates. |
What does the underlined sentence mean in the passage?
A.“Evil Genius” refused to buy toys. |
B.“Evil Genius” didn’t believe his mother’s words. |
C.“Evil Genius” wanted to keep silent. |
D.“Evil Genius” would not give away the secret. |
What lesson can we learn from the story?
A.Lies can never change facts. |
B.Honesty is the best policy. |
C.No one is perfect. |
D.We should think twice before we act. |
The child of today owes much of its pleasant school life to the work of Maria Montessori and others who felt as she did.
Maria Montessori was born in 1870 in northern Italy. Both her parents were well educated.
While Maria was a student, she took great interest in the study of the particular nature of the child's mind. It came to her that small children should have freedom to learn.
Maria became a doctor and a professor at Rome University.In 1907, after working with backward students, she was given a chance to try out her ideas on children.There were sixty children, aged three to six, in the Children's House.The rooms were bright and colorful.Maria let the children make their own choice of what they wanted to do and work with their own speed. They became busy, peaceful and happy.
Maria Montessori was one of the world's great teachers.She traveled in Europe, America and Far East.She thought that true education, providing(提供) for the real needs of the child, would produce wise and happy grown-ups and therefore a peaceful world. Her original way of education has changed our whole idea of what childhood is.
Maria Montessori died in Holland at the age of eighty-two.
The short passage is mainly about_________.
A.the education of backward students |
B.a new idea of education |
C.the importance of proper education |
D.the life of Maria Montessori |
Maria traveled a lot in the world to ________..
A.teach the backward students |
B.enjoy her life in real nature |
C.spread her ideas of teaching |
D.study the situation of education |
In what way did Maria teach the children in the Children's House?
A.She taught them the best way of learning well. |
B.She let them learn in a very pleasant way. |
C.She taught them by showing them how to do things. |
D.She just let them choose the most interesting subjects. |
We learn from the passage that ________.
A.Maria left her homeland in order to study abroad |
B.Maria didn't get married |
C.Maria's own parents were her teachers |
D.Maria fully understood the child's mind |
阅读下列短文,从每题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中,选出最佳选项,并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
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Camp All-Star stands out among the others because it ______.
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One of the goals of Camp All-star is to ______.
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This advertisement is intended for ______.
A.parents |
B.coaches |
C.staff |
D.campers |
If you're tired of the Mediterranean and don't want to head to Disney again,perhaps it's time for a summer holiday in space.Russia has declared plans for its first floating hotel,217 miles above earth,and it is something of an offering with good service.
Hosting just seven guests in a four cabins,the accommodation will boast huge windows with views back to earth and tasty microwave meals will be served instead of the ones often used by astronauts.
Just getting there will be an adventure in itself—it will take two days aboard a Soyuz rocket—and it won't exactly be a budget holiday: A five-day stay will cost you£100,000 to£500,000 for your journey.The hotel is due to open by 2016 and,according to those behind it,will be far more comfortable than the International Space Station (ISS) used by astronauts and cosmonauts.
In the weightlessness of space,visitors can choose to have beds that are either vertical or horizontal.Tourists,who will be accompanied by experienced crew,will dine on food prepared on Earth and sent up on the rocket,to be reheated in microwave ovens.Many kinds of delicacies will be available.
Iced tea,mineral water and fruit juices will be available,but alcohol will be strictly prohibited.Toilets will use flowing air instead of water to move waste through the system.Waste water will be recycled.
Sergei Kostenko,chief executive of Orbital Technologies which will construct the hotel,said: “Our planned module inside will not remind you of the International Space Station.A hotel should be comfortable inside,and it will be possible to look at the Earth.The hotel will be aimed at wealthy individuals and people working for private companies who want to do research in space.” The hotel can also be used as an emergency bolthole (避难处) for astronauts aboard the International Space Station if there is a crisis.
Which can be the best title of the passage?
A.Russia declares the design for its first space hotel |
B.The first space hotel is under construction now |
C.The astronauts will have a second home in space |
D.Russia has the advanced technology in exploring space |
What does the underlined word “budget” in the 3rd paragraph mean?
A.expensive |
B.worthwhile |
C.economic |
D.uncomfortable |
What kind of accommodation will the guests have in the space hotel?
A.They will have the same food as the astronauts have. |
B.Many kinds of drinks are available including alcohol. |
C.Guests can have beds that are either vertical or horizontal. |
D.Tourists are accompanied by the astronauts from the ISS. |
Which of the following statements is TRUE according to the passage?
A.The space hotel is built to remind you of the International Space Station. |
B.The hotel is constructed with big windows so that tourists can see the earth. |
C.The company,Orbital Technologies,has already begun to build the space hotel. |
D.In the near future,a space trip for most of the people can be realized. |
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Jane, who would like to buy a poster with the size of 45×75cm, will probably buy ________.
A.ABC Wall Art | B.Kids World Map |
C.Skateboard Park | D.City Slickers |
David plans to buy two posters. He should at least take ________ with him.
A.$ 15.3. | B.$ 14. | C.$ 12. | D.$ 13.3. |
Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?
A.Kids can find two cool giraffes on Skateboard Park. |
B.Kids can just learn some English letters on ABC Wall Art. |
C.Kids can enjoy fun zebra children’s wall art on City Slickers. |
D.Kids can get some geography knowledge on Kids World Map. |
The evidence for harmony may not be obvious in some families. But it seems that four out of five young people now get on well with their parents, which is the opposite of the popularly held image of unhappy teenagers locked in their room after endless family quarrels.
An important new study into teenage attitudes surprisingly shows that their family life is happier than it has ever been in the past. “We were surprised by just how positive today’s young people seem to be about their families,” said one member of the research team. “They’re expected to be rebellious(叛逆的)and selfish but actually they have other things on their minds; they want a car and material goods, and they worry about whether school is serving them well. There’s discussion between parents and children, and children expect to take part in the family decision-making process. They don’t want to rock the boat.”
So it seems that these parents are much more likely than parents of 30 years ago to treat their children as friends. “My parents are happy to discuss things with me and willing to listen to me,” says 17-year-old Daniel LaSalle. “I always tell them when I'm going out clubbing. When they know what I'm doing, they’re fine with it.” Susan Cromer, who is now 21, agrees. “Looking back on the last 10 years, there was a lot of what you could call talk or discussion. For example, when I’d done all my homework, I could go out on a Saturday night. But I think my grandparents were a lot stricter with my parents than that.”
Maybe this positive view of family life should not be unexpected. It is possible that the idea of teenage rebellion is not based on real facts. A researcher explains, “Teenagers were thought to be different from others in a part of time in our social history. But to our surprise, they say they are getting on well with their parents. But that idea of rebelling and breaking away from their parents really only happened during that one time in the 1960s when everyone rebelled.”
The study shows that teenagers don't want to ______________________.
A.share family duties |
B.cause trouble in their families |
C.go boating with their family |
D.make family decisions |
Compared with parents of 30 years ago, today’s parents ___________________.
A.go to clubs more often with their children |
B.are much stricter with their children |
C.care less about their children’s life |
D.give their children more freedom |
According to the writer, teenage rebellion ____________________.
A.may be a wrong opinion |
B.is common at present |
C.always happened in the 1960s |
D.was caused by changes in families |
Which title best gives the main idea of the passage?
A.Discussion in family |
B.Teenage education in family |
C.Teenage trouble in family |
D.Harmony in family |
Children have their own rules in playing games.They seldom need a referee (裁判) and rarely take trouble to keep scores.They don’t care much about who wins or loses,and it doesn’t seem to worry them if the game is not finished.Yet,they like games that depend a lot on luck,so that their personal abilities cannot be directly compared.They also enjoy games that move in stages,in which each stage,the choosing of leaders,the picking-up of sides,or the determining of which side shall start,is almost a game in itself.
Grown-ups can hardly find children’s game exciting,and they often feel puzzled at why their kids play such simple game again and again.However,it is found that a child plays games for very important reasons.He can be a good player without having to think whether he is a popular person,and he can find himself being a useful partner to someone of whom he is ordinary afraid.He becomes a leader when it comes to his turn.He can be confident,too,in particular games,that it is his place to give orders,to pretend to be dead,to throw a ball actually at someone,or to kiss someone he has caught.
It appears to us that when children play a game they imagine a situation under their control.Everyone knows the rules,and more importantly,everyone plays according to the rules.Those rules may be childish,but they make sure that every child has a chance to win.
What is true about children when they play games?
A.They can stop playing any time they like. |
B.They can test their personal abilities. |
C.They want to pick a better team. |
D.They don’t need rules. |
To become a leader in a game,the child has to _________.
A.be a useful partner |
B.wait for his turn |
C.be confident in himself |
D.be popular among his playmates |
Why does a child like playing games?
A.Because he can be someone other than himself. |
B.Because he can become popular among friends. |
C.Because he finds he is always lucky in games. |
D.Because he likes the place where he plays a game. |
Which is the best title for this passage?
A.Rules in Children’s Games |
B.Advantages of Playing Games for Children |
C.Reasons for Children’s Games |
D.How to Be a Popular Game Player |
My family moved around a lot when I was growing up.In 2nd grade,I lived here in Washington D.C,where I made an amazing group of friends.I was upset when my parents told me we were moving again and I would have to leave all my best friends behind.
In 7th grade.we moved back to Washington D.C.And I could not have been more excited and I felt like I was finally home again.But things had changed.There were two new girls,who decided that they didn’t like me,which meant no one else could,not even all my former best friends.
And then one day during school,I opened my locker,only to find a note lying on the floor.The note said:Die.Nobody likes you.
My heart started beating faster and I felt the blood rushing to my face.I had no idea what to do.The note wasn’t signed and I had no idea who had written it,but I figured the new girls were behind it.I had to sit in class all day with my head down,wondering who else knew about this shame.I felt horrible and sure that nothing would ever be good again.
I decided that the perfect way to end all of this was with another note,left on the bathroom mirror at school.
It’s sad for someone to bully(欺负)other classmates to make themselves feel better or look cool.Bullying others is a way to impress others.It’s common,but that doesn’t mean it's okay.Looking cool is not worth making others feel bad.Obviously I’m very happy now,but it doesn’t mean I’11 ever forget about that note or how it made me feel.And to those of you that are current victims(目前的受害者) of bullying—know that you are NOT alone.It will get better.I promise.
Why was the author unhappy when she left Washington D.C.?
A.She couldn’t adapt herself
B.She had to leave best friends.
C.She was growing up there.
D.She hated traveling a lot.
When the author opened the locker,she felt .
A.satisfied | B.cheerful | C.amused | D.ashamed |
In the end,the author turned things around .
A.under her teacher’s guide |
B.by compromising to others |
C.with her best friends’ help |
D.through her own efforts |
What suggestion does the author give to the teenagers?
A.Meet friends whenever possible. |
B.Make efforts to fight back hard. |
C.Be optimistic and let a thing slide. |
D.Go on well with others. |
It was the end of my first day as a waitress in a busy New York restaurant. My cap had gone away, and my feet hurt. The loaded plates I carried seemed to be heavier and heavier. Tired and discouraged, I didn’t seem able to do anything right. As I made out a check for a family with several children who had changed their ice-cream order a dozen times, I was ready to stop. Then the father smiled at me as he handed me my tip. “Well done,” he said, “you’ve looked after us really well.” Suddenly my tiredness disappeared. I smiled back, and later, when the manager asked me how I’d liked my first day, I said, “Fine!” Those few words of praise had changed everything. Praise is like sunlight to human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it. And yet, most of us are only too ready to apply to others the cold criticism(批评), but are unwilling to give our fellows the warm sunshine of praise. Perhaps that is why one word of praise can bring such pleasure.
It’s strange how chary we are about praising. Perhaps it’s because few of us know how to accept it. It’s especially rewarding to give praise in areas in which effort generally goes unnoticed.An artist gets admired for a glorious picture,a cook for a perfect meal.But do you ever tell your laundry (洗衣房)manager how pleased you are when the shirts are done just right? In fact,to give praise costs the giver nothing but a moment’s thought and a moment’s effort.
Which of the following can’t describe the writer’s situation before she got her tip?
A.She was tired. | B.She was busy. |
C.She was sorry. | D.She was confident. |
According to the passage,which of the following is least likely to be given praise?
A.An artist. | B.A cook. |
C.A waitress. | D.A laundry manager. |
The underlined word “chary” in Paragraph 2 means_________.
A.careless | B.cautious |
C.unwilling | D.greedy |
What is the best title of the passage?
A.Why Do You Praise Others? |
B.Why do You Criticize Others? |
C.Be Generous to Give Others Praise! |
D.Don’t Criticize Others! |
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