During the last fifteen years of my mother's life she suffered with Alzheimer's disease (老年性痴呆). Until then she had been a bright, ____ woman deeply interested and involved in the world around her. I would go home to visit her in Virginia and she would look at me in a(an) ____ way and ask, "Who are you?" I would answer, "I'm your son." "Where do you live?" She would ask. "In California," I would tell her. "Isn't that interesting," she would say, "I have a son in California."
She seemed ____ forgetful and confused at the beginning of the disease, ____ later on she would go ___ periods of intense anxiety. She would pace through the house she had lived in most of her life ____ uneasily that she wanted to go home. Or she would leave home and wander away if she were ____ for a short time.
Hoping to please her and put her mind ____ I would take her for a drive, visiting sites where she had lived as a ____. In the yard of the hillside house in Shipman I sat in the car and admired the view of the old oaks and long green lawn. I ____ my mother there was a little girl playing with the pet lamb she had been so fond of. I looked to her for some ____. She shook her head and said, "I want to go home."
Over the years I have decided that what my mother was calling home was not a ____, but a time. I suspect it was a time when she was much ____, when her children were still underfoot, when her husband was still vigorous and attentive.
Watching my mother's suffering set me wondering ____ I would have in mind if someday I couldn't find ____ and wanted to go there. In this family we tend to be long-lived and we grow fuzzy (糊涂的) minded as the years go by. At eighty I have already noticed some ____ symptoms. My doctor says the forgetfulness is only ____ and that it comes with age. Still the fear of Alzheimer's is haunting there. Someday ____ and when I become even more ____ minded than I am now, unable to drive and unable to tell you where "home" is, my dear son, I expect I will ask you to take me home, I know you will do your best to find the place I need to be. I leave these notes for your ____.
A.accessible B.cheerful C.hopeful D.considerate
A.excited B.doubtful C.puzzled D.amazed
A.greatly B.hardly C.totally D.simply
A.but B.so C.and D.though
A.with B.through C.by D.over
A.declaring B.suggesting C.crying D.commenting
A.unsettled B.unattended C.unconcerned D.uninspired
A.in place B.under control C.in order D.at ease
A.lady B.student C.child D.mother
A.told B.pictured C.stated D.encouraged
A.response B.smile C.reasons D.answers
A.name B.dream C.symbol D.place
A.prettier B.younger C.happier D.healthier
A.that B.where C.which D.when
A.memory B.passion C.home D.way
A.deadly B.alarming C.interesting D.allergic
A.natural B.special C.rare D.unique
A.if B.what C.until D.whether
A.mechanical B.cloudy C.clear D.stubborn
A.appreciation B.satisfaction C.guidance D.convenience
One of the most common questions parents ask me is,“How,in this competitive world,can you raise kind children” My answer is “to begin by being a adult”. When your child you go the extra mile to help a friend,he will naturally this as the right way to live.
We are mirrors for our . When children observe your examples of kindness,they'll know to begin. One day,I mentioned that I had a ,and my 8yearold daughter upstairs to run a bath for me. You know who her stomachaches in just such a way.
Kindness is a quality that isn't often in our schools,so we must make a strong effort to acknowledge it . A busy mother I know is making a(an) to acknowledge her young son's kindness. She says,“Once I was with my son on a bus,and he sat next to a classmate using a wheelchair, I was amazed at helpful and considerate he was,and I was to praise him when we got home.”
Kindness,compassion(同情),and love from understanding and respect,and in turn create more of . It would help to acknowledge kids' thoughtfulness instead of competition. In an achievementoriented (成绩导向型) culture,we may focus more grades and sports victories than on of the heart. the time to acknowledge kind actions as having true worth. We can kindness in our everyday lives,for example,by creating a “kindness board”.
A.normal B.knowledgeable C.selfless D.kind
A.sees B.watches C.stares D.inspects
A.think B.consider C.respect D.look
A.students B.kids C.parents D.adults
A.when B.why C.where D.what
A.headache B.fever C.cold D.stomachache
A.walked B.moved C.rushed D.stepped
A.had treated B.was treating C.has treated D.would treat
A.given B.rewarded C.received D.accepted
A.in public B.in secret C.at home D.on a bus
A.plan B.trick C.promise D.effort
A.what B.how C.so D.such
A.quick B.late C.slow D.sorry
A.leave B.give C.make D.grow
A.both B.none C.neither D.all
A.increasing B.reducing C.preventing D.filling
A.in B.with C.for D.on
A.weight B.values C.easiness D.satisfaction
A.Spend B.Cost C.Waste D.Take
A.push B.form C.throw D.make
“Why do we shout in anger?” a saint (圣人) asked his disciples (门徒). “Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?”
His disciples thought for a while, and one of them said, “Because we 16 our calm, we shout for that.”
“But, why do you shout when the other person is 17 next to you?” asked the saint. “Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft 18 ? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?”
Disciples gave some other answers but none 19 the saint. Finally he explained, “When two people are angry at each other, their 20 distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the 21 they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.”
Then the saint asked, “What 22 when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close and the distance between them is very 23 .”
The saint continued, “When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak loudly, only whisper and they get 24 closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only 25 each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.”
The saint said finally, “When you argue, do not let your hearts get 26 , and do not say words that distance each other more, or there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not 27 the path to return!”
A.miss B.lose C.avoid D.refuse
A.already B.yet C.just D.well
A.voice B.sound C.attitude D.manner
A.excited B.satisfied C.surprised D.persuaded
A.heads B.brains C.backs D.hearts
A.faster B.slower C.louder D.earlier
A.happens B.matters C.decides D.concerns
A.short B.long C.easy D.hard
A.never B.ever C.too D.even
A.look at B.take over C.turn away D.rely on
A.empty B.distant C.cold D.lonely
A.build B.repair C.follow D.find
I used to believe in the American Dream, which meant a job, a mortgage, credit cards, success. I wanted it and worked toward it like everyone else, all of us 51 chasing the same thing.
One year, through a series of unhappy events, it all fell 52 . I found myself homeless and alone. I had my truck and $56. I 53 the countryside for some place I could rent for the 54 possible amount. I came upon a shabby house four miles up a winding mountain road over the Potomac River in West Virginia. It was 55 , full of broken glass and rubbish. I found the owner, rented it, and 56 a corner to camp in.
The locals knew nothing about me, but slowly, they started teaching me the 57 of being a neighbor. They dropped off blankets, candles, and tools, and began sticking around to chat. They started to teach me a belief in a 58 American Dream—not the one of individual achievement but of neighborliness.
What I had believed in, all those things I thought were 59 for a civilized life, were nonexistent in this place. 60 on the mountain, my most valuable possessions were my 61 with my neighbors.
Four years later, I moved back into 62 . I saw many people were having a really hard time,
63 their jobs and homes. I managed to rent a big enough house to 64 a handful of people. There are four of us now in the house, but over time I’ve had nine people come in and move on to other places. We’d all be in shelters if we hadn’t banded together.
The American Dream I believe in now is a shared one. It’s not so much about what I can get for myself; it’s about 65 we can all get bytogether.
A.separately B.equally C.violently D.naturally
A.off B.apart C.over D.out
A.crossed B.left C.toured D.searched
A.fullest B.largest C.fairest D.cheapest
A.occupied B.abandoned C.emptied D.robbed
A.turned B.approached C.cleared D.cut
A.benefit B.lesson C.nature D.art
A.wild B.real C.different D.remote
A.unique B.expensive C.rare D.necessary
A.Up B.Down C.Deep D.Along
A.cooperation B.relationships C.satisfaction D.appointments
A.reality B.society C.town D.life
A.creating B.losing C.quitting D.offering
A.put in B.turn in C.take in D.get in
A.when B.what C.whether D.how
One night recently, I was driving down a two-lane highway at about 60 miles an hour. A car approached from the 36 direction at about the same speed. As we 37 each other, I caught the other driver’s eye for only a second. I wondered whether he might be 38 , as I was, how dependent we were on each other at that moment. I was relying on him not to fall 39 , not to be put off by a phone conversation, not to cross over into my lane and bring my life to a sudden 40 . Though we had 41 spoken a word to each other, he relied on me in just the same way.
Multiplied a million times over, I believe that is the way the world 42 . At some 43 , we all depend upon one another. Sometimes that dependence requires us 44 not to do something like crossing over the double yellow line. And sometimes it requires us to act 45 , with friends or even with 46 .
As technology 47 our world, the need increases for cooperative action among nations. In 2003, doctors in five nations were quickly organized to identify the SARS virus, which 48 thousands of lives. The threat of international terrorism has shown itself to be a 49 problem, one requiring coordinated action by police and intelligence forces across the world’ We must recognize that our fates are not ours 50 to control.
In my own life, I’ve put great stock in 51 responsibility. 52 , as the years have passed, I’ve also come to believe that there are moments when one must rely upon the good faith and judgment of 53 . So, while each of us faces the case of driving alone down a 54 road, what we must learn is that the approaching light may not be a threat, but a shared moment of 55 .
A.wrong B.correct C.same D.opposite
A.passed B.greeted C.recognized D.met
A.believing B.thinking C.admitting D.suggesting
A.down B.off C.asleep D.sick
A.end B.shock C.surprise D.disaster
A.apparently B.hardly C.never D.ever
A.looks B.exists C.stays D.works
A.level B.place C.moment D.length
A.temporarily B.simply C.constantly D.consciously
A.independently B.respectively C.individually D.cooperatively
A.strangers B.colleagues C.parents D.partners
A.develops B.enlarges C.shrinks D.improves
A.killed B.threatened C.destroyed D.saved
A.similar B.different C.serious D.widespread
A.alike B.alone C.alive D.along
A.personal B.public C.common D.general
A.Therefore B.Though C.But D.Thus
A.friends B.authorities C.others D.oneself
A.dark B.main C.busy D.narrow
A.enjoyment B.trust C.safety D.encouragement
One day I decided to quit.I quitted my job, my relationship, my spirituality. I wanted to quit my life.
I went to the 36 to have one last talk with God. "Can you give me one good 37 not to quit?" His answer surprised me.
"Look around. Do you see the fern(蕨类植物) and the bamboo? When I planted their seeds, I took good care of them.The fern quickly grew from the earth. 38 nothing came from the bamboo seed. During the following three years, the fern grew more plentiful. And 39 , nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. Then in the fifth year a 40 sprout(新芽) emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was 41 small and insignificant. But just 6 months later the bamboo 42 to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing 43 . Those roots made it strong and gave it 44 it needed to survive. I wouldn’t give any of my creations a challenge it could not 45 .”
He said to me. "All this time you have been struggling, you have 46 been growing roots. I would not quit on the bamboo. 47 will I ever quit on you. Don't 48 yourself with others.The bamboo had a different 49 from the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful. Your time will 50 . You will rise high! "
"How high should I rise?" I asked.
"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked 51 .
"As high as it can?" I 52 .
"Yes," He said. "Give me glory 53 rising as high as you can."
I left the forest and bring back this story. I hope it can help you see that God will never 54 on you. Never regret a day in your life. Good days give you happiness. Bad days give you 55 . Both are necessary to life.
A.farm B.heaven C.bushes D.woods
A.reason B.sense C.response D.explanation
A.Even B.Instead C.Yet D.Rather
A.again B.always C.ever D.often
A.thin B.tiny C.weak D.short
A.largely B.entirely C.seemingly D.probably
A.raised B.provided C.rose D.produced
A.fruits B.leaves C.seeds D. roots
A.which B.where C.how D.what
A.present B.explore C.handle D.offer
A.particularly B.actually C.merely D.obviously
A.Either B.So C.Neither D.As
A.furnish B.associate C. connect D.compare
A.purpose B.recognition C. credit D.possibility
A.go B.come C.get D.leave
A.in nature B.in exchange C.in respect D.in turn
A.questioned B.required C.requested D.remarked
A.from B.with C.by D.for
A.cut up B.give up C.break up D.pick up
A.experiences B.strengths C.awards D.ambitions
In a world where comparisons happen non-stop, it is difficult to look outside yourself and to ever be 46 with who you are. There’s always someone who’s a bit 47 . The only solution is to reach 48 and measure against what Warren Buffett calls your own inner yardstick. There is no more 49 measure for comparison than who your were yesterday, last week or last decade, when you were at your 50 .
Nothing useful ever comes from comparison to others. Either you see yourself as better than someone and you get 51 , or you see someone else as better than you and you feel like all your hard work is for 52 . It is a fool’s game. Not one of us is exactly 53 . The only direct and honest comparison is 54 yourself. Everything else is apples to oranges.
My opinion is that you are only 55 to compare yourself to someone else if their life 56 is the same as your own. Good luck finding that 57 . And one thing is for sure. No matter how hard you work and how dedicated(埋头苦干的)you are, there will always be someone who can run a little faster, jump a little higher, score a little better or look a little nicer in a swimsuit. And if there’s not, you can 58 someone is coming up fast 59 you. So how can you always win in life? Become your best 60 .
Having an image of your most recent past limits is the perfect thing to 61 you to the next level. If you ran 7 flights of stairs yesterday, then do 8 today. Who 62 if the guy next to you did 15? It doesn’t make a bit of 63 . You are a more 64 person today than you were yesterday. Your own 65 is all you need.
A.patient B.strict C.content D.concerned
A.stronger B.better C.lazier D.wiser
A.inside B.out C.for D.up
A.accurate B.useful C.careful D.powerful
A.end B.best C.convenience D.side
A.satisfied B.busy C.inspired D.lazy
A.nothing B.fun C.sure D.success
A.equal B.unique C.alike D.common
A.within B.by C.for D.of
A.instructed B.allowed C.directed D.suggested
A.situation B.position C.occasion D.accommodation
A.game B.match C.friend D.enemy
A.conclude B.bet C.announce D.declare
A.before B.beside C.below D.behind
A.assistant B.competitor C.coach D.teacher
A.contribute B.expose C.push D.devote
A.cares B.says C.wonders D.asks
A.effort B.sense C.difference D.change
A.successful B.happy C.lucky D.fit
A.benefit B.progress C.habit D.result
During the last fifteen years of my mother's life she suffered with Alzheimer's disease. Until then she had been a bright, __51__ woman deeply interested and involved in the world around her. I would go home to visit her in Virginia and she would look at me in a(an) __52__ way and ask, "Who are you?" I would answer, "I'm your son." "Where do you live?" She would ask. "In California," I would tell her. "Isn't that interesting," she would say, "I have a son in California."
She seemed __53__ forgetful and confused at the beginning of the disease, __54__ later on she would go __55__periods of intense anxiety. She would pace through the house she had lived in most of her life __56__ uneasily that she wanted to go home. Or she would leave home and wander away if she were __57__ for a short time.
Hoping to please her and put her mind __58__ I would take her for a drive, visiting sites where she had lived as a __59__. In the yard of the hillside house in Shipman I sat in the car and admired the view of the old oaks and long green lawn. I __60__ my mother there as a little girl playing with the pet lamb she had been so fond of. I looked to her for some __61__. She shook her head and said, "I want to go home." Over the years I have decided that what my mother was calling home was not a __62__, but a time. I suspect it was a time when she was much __63__, when her children were still underfoot, when her husband was still vigorous and attentive.
Watching my mother's suffering set me wondering __64__ I would have in mind if someday I couldn't find __65__ and wanted to go there. In this family we tend to be long-lived and we grow fuzzy (糊涂的) minded as the years go by. At eighty I have already noticed some __66__ symptoms. My doctor says the forgetfulness is only __67__ and that it comes with age. Still the fear of Alzheimer's is haunting there. Someday __68__ and when I become even more __69__ minded than I am now, unable to drive and unable to tell you where "home" is, my dear son, I expect I will ask you to take me home, I know you will do your best to find the place I need to be. I leave these notes for your __70__.
A.accessible B.cheerful C.hopeful D.considerate
A.excited B.doubtful C.puzzled D.amazed
A.greatly B.hardly C.totally D.simply
A.but B.so C.and D.though
A.with B.through C.by D.over
A.declaring B.suggesting C.crying D.commenting
A.unsettled B.unattended C.unconcerned D.uninspired
A.in place B.under control C.in order D.at ease
A.lady B.student C.child D.mother
A.told B.pictured C.stated D.encouraged
A.response B.smile C.reasons D.answers
A.name B.dream C.symbol D.place
A.prettier B.younger C.happier D.healthier
A.that B.where C.which D.when
A.memory B.passion C.home D.way
A.deadly B.alarming C.interesting D.allergic
A.natural B.special C.rare D.unique
A.if B.what C.until D.whether
A.mechanical B.cloudy C.clear D.stubborn
A.appreciation B.satisfaction C.guidance D.convenience
One day,a man in rags begged from door to door along the street. With an old wallet in
his hanD. he was asking for a few coins to buy something to eat. He kept complaining(抱怨)
about his bad fortune and kept 36 why those who had so much money were never 37
and were always desiring more.
"As far as I'm concerneD. if I had only enough to 38 and to wear, I would not want anything more.”
Just at that moment Goddess Fortune, who came down the 39 ,saw the beggar and said to him, "Hi, I have wished to 40 you for a long time. Now, open your 41 and I will pour my gold into it. But I will do that only on this 42 :All that falls into the wallet will be pure gold; but every piece falling upon the 43 shall become dust. Do you unde stand?""I see.”said the beggar."Then you should 44 !It's obvious that your wallet is a(n) 45 one,so don't to it too heavily,”said the Goddess Fortune.
The excited beggar could hardly 46 to have gold He quickly opened his wallet, anc
47 of yellow coins was poured into it. The wallet grew heavier and heavier.
"Is that enough? Isn't it cracking?" asked Fortune.
"Never 48 .It's still strong enough now.,’answered the beggar.
The wallet was filled with so many coins that the beggar's hands began to 49 . "A if only the golden stream would 50 forever! Just a little more,”said the beggar,“ 51 just a handful or two.”
"There! It's full. The wallet will 52 .”warned the Goddess, but the beggar reque teD.“It will 53 a little more, just a little more.”
One more piece was added and the wallet split. The 54 fell upon the ground and came dust, The greedy beggar had nowto 55 but his broken bag.
A.showing B.explaining C.proving D.wondering
A.relaxed B.satisfied C.worried D.depressed
A.learn B.watch C.eat D.play
A.street B.bridge C.yard D.forest
A.praise B.forgive C.help D.comfort
A.coat B.pocket C.box D.wallet
A.occasion B.suggestion C.situation D.condition
A.hand B.feet C.ground D.corner
A.look out B.look after C.look up D.look down
A.large B.empty C.worn D.full
A.stand B.wait C.breathe D.think
A.stream B.piece C.pair D.variety
A.disturb B.request C.fear D.insist
A.spread B.close C.loose D.shake
A.pour B.end C.dry D.melt
A.take B.add C.lend D.send
A.flow B.burst C.disappear D.change
A.attract B.permit C.include D.hold
A.present B.food C.treasure D.metal
A.nothing B.anything C.everything D.something
My sister and I grew up in a little village in England.Our father was a struggling ___36___, but I always knew he was ___37___.He never criticized us, but used ___38___ to bring out our best.He’d say, “If you pour water on flowers, they flourish.If you don’t give them water, they die.” I ___39___ as a child I said something ___40___ about somebody, and father said, “___41___ time you say something unpleasant about somebody else, it’s a reflection of you.” He explained that if I looked for the best ___42___ people, I would get the best ___43___.From then on I’ve always tried to ___44___ the principle in my life and later in running my company.
Dad’s also always been very ___45___.At 15, I started a magazine.It was ___46___ a great deal of time, and the headmaster of my school gave me a ___47__: stay in school or leave to work on my magazine.
I decided to leave, and Dad tried to sway me from my decision, ___48___ any good father would.When he realized I had made up my mind, he said, “Richard, when I was 23, my dad ___49__ me to go into law.And I’ve ___50___ regretted it.I wanted to be a biologist, ___51__ I didn’t pursue my ___52__.You know what you want.Go fulfill it.”
As ___53__ turned out, my little publication went on to become Student, a national ___54__ for young people in the U.K.My wife and I have two children, and I’d like to think we are bringing them up in the same way Dad ___55__ me.
A.biologist B.manager C.lawyer D.gardener
A.strict B.honest C.special D.learned
A.praise B.courage C.power D.warmth
A.think B.imagine C.remember D.guess
A.unnecessary B.unkind C.unimportant D.unusual
A.Another B.Some C.Any D.Other
A.on B.in C.at D.about
A.in case B.by turns C.by chance D.in return
A.revise B.set C.review D.follow
A.understanding B.experienced C.serious D.demanding
A.taking up B.making up C.picking up D.keeping up
A.suggestion B.decision C.notice D.choice
A.and B.as C.even if D.as if
A.helped B.allowed C.persuaded D.suggested
A.always B.never C.seldom D.almost
A.rather B.but C.for D.therefore
A.promise B.task C.belief D.dream
A.this B.he C.it D.that
A.newspaper B.magazine C.program D.project
A.controlled B.comforted C.reminded D.raised
In the doorway of my home, I looked closely at my 23-year-old son, Daniel. In a few hours he would be flying to France to 36 a different life. It was a transitional(过渡的)time in Daniel's life. I wanted to 37 him some words of significance. But nothing came from my lips, and this was not the 38 time I had let such moments pass.
When Daniel was five, I took him to the bus stop on his first day of kindergarten. He asked, “What is it going to be like, Dad? Can I do it?” Then he walked 39 the steps of the bus and disappeared inside. The bus drove away and I said nothing. A decade later, a similar 40 played itself out. I drove him to college. As I started to leave, I tried to think of something to say to give him 41 and confidence as he started this new stage of life. Again, words 42 me.
Now, as I stood before him, I thought of those 43 opportunities. How many times have I let such moments 44 ? I don't find a quiet moment to tell him what they have 45 to me. Or what he might 46 to face in the years ahead. Maybe I thought it was not necessary to say anything.
What does it matter in the course of a lifetime if a father never tells a son what he really thinks of him? 47 as I stood before Daniel, I knew that it did matter. My father and I loved each other. Yet, I always 48 never hearing him put his 49 into words. Now I could feel my palms sweat and my throat tighten. Why is it so 50 to tell a son something from the heart?
My mouth turned dry, and I knew I would be able to get out only a few words clearly. “Daniel,” I said, “If I could have picked, I would have picked you.” That's all I could say. He hugged me. For a moment, the world 51 , and there were just Daniel and me. He was saying something, but tears misted my eyes, and I couldn't understand what he was saying. All I was 52 of was the stubble(短须)on his chin as his face pressed 53 mine. What I had said to Daniel was 54 . It was nothing. And yet, it was 55 .
A.experience B.spend C.enjoy D.shape
A.show B.give C.leave D.instruct
A.last B.first C.very D.next
A.upward B.into C.down D.up
A.sign B.scene C.scenery D.sight
A.interest B.instruction C.courage D.direction
A.failed B.discouraged C.struck D.troubled
A.future B.embarrassing C.obvious D.lost
A.last B.pass C.fly D.remain
A.counted B.meant C.valued D.eared
A.think B.want C.expect D.wish
A.But B.And C.Instead D.So
A.wondered B.regretted C.minded D.tried
A.views B.actions C.feelings D.attitudes
A.important B.essential C.hard D.complex
A.disappeared B.changed C.progressed D.advanced
A.sensitive B.convinced C.aware D.tired
A.by B.against C.on D.with
A.clumsy B.gentle C.absurd D.moving
A.none B.all C.anything D.everything
There once was a little boy who often got angry for unknown reasons and ended up quarreling with his friends. His parents felt 36 but had no idea how to deal with the matter.
In order to help the son, his father gave him a bag of 37 and told him that every time he 38 his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the 39 .
At first the boy felt puzzled at his father's words, but he did as he was told. The first day the little boy had 40 thirty nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, 41 he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily 42 reduced. Three months later, the little boy discovered it was easier to 43 his temper than to hammer those nails into the fence. Finally the day came 44 the little boy did not lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the little boy now 45 one nail each day when he was 46 control his temper. The days passed and the little boy was 47 able to tell his father that all the nails were 48 .
The father took his little boy 49 the hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You have done well, my son, but look at the 50 in the fence. The fence will never be the 51 .When you say things in anger, they 52 a scar just like this one on the person to whom you lose your temper. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. 53 many times you say “I'm sorry”, the wound is still there. A mental wound is as bad as a 54 one. The hurt and pain caused by the 55 are deeper than those caused by the hand.
A.patient B.angry C.desperate D.worried
A.books B.tools C.nails D.suggestions
A.kept B.missed C.lost D.left
A.hammer B.shoes C.fence D.hands
A.discovered B.pulled C.pushed D.driven
A.as B.unless C.till D.although
A.hardly B.possibly C.terribly D.gradually
A.catch B.lose C.break D.hold
A.before B.when C.after D.until
A.pulled out B.pull out C.pulled over D.pull over
A.able to B.managed to C.succeeded to D.going to
A.eagerly B.fortunately C.hardly D.finally
A.lost B.returned C.gone D.spared
A.in B.of C.on D.by
A.nails B.cuts C.surface D.holes
A.one B.same C.best D.fence
A.run B.leave C.lead D.remain
A.No matter B.No doubt C.How D.However
A.serious B.violent C.terrible D.physical
A.knife B.nail C.tongue D.hammer
One effective way of destroying happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest fault. It’s like looking at the tiled (铺瓦的) ceiling and concentrating on the space where one tile is 1 .
Once I heard a bald man said, “Whenever I enter a room, all I see is hair.” Once you’ve 2 what your missing tile is, explore whether acquiring it will 3 make you happy. Then do one of the three things: get it, replace it with a different 4 , or forget about it and 5 the tiles in your life that are not missing.
We all know people who have had a relatively 6 life, yet are essentially unhappy, while people who have suffered a great deal generally remain happy.
The first 7 is gratitude. All happy people are grateful. Ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to 8 , but it’s truer to say that complaining leads to people becoming unhappy.
The second secret is awareness. We should 9 that happiness is a byproduct (副产品) of something else. The most obvious 10 are those pursuits ( 追求) that give our lives purpose---anything from studying insects to playing baseball. The more passions we have, the more happiness we are 11 to experience.
Finally, the belief that something permanent goes beyond us and that our 12 has some larger meaning can help us to feel happier. We need a spiritual faith, or a philosophy of life. Whatever your philosophy is, it should 13 this truth: if you choose to find the 14 in every situation, you will be blessed, and if you choose to find the awful, you will be cursed. As for happiness itself, this 15 depends on your decision to make.
A.different B.short C.missing D.broken
A.imagined B.predicted C.assumed D.determined
A.really B.naturally C.hopefully D.completely
A.ceiling B.brick C.tile D.house
A.go on B.focus on C.put on D.rely on
A.easy B.difficult C.ordinary D.peaceful
A.factor B.secret C.rule D.key
A.upset B.quarrel C.depress D.complain
A.realize B.decide C.prove D.suppose
A.answers B.results C.sources D.goals
A.curious B.satisfied C.tentative D.likely
A.value B.existence C.survival D.destination
A.include B.tell C.absorb D.mean
A.worst B.positive C.disgusting D.negative
A.absolutely B.totally C.largely D.exactly
In a world where comparisons happen non-stop, it is difficult to look outside yourself and to ever be 36 with who you are. There’s always someone who’s a bit 37 . The only solution is to reach 38 and measure against what Warren Buffett calls your own inner yardstick. There is no more 39 measure for comparison than who your were yesterday, last week or last decade, when you were at your 40 .
Nothing useful ever comes from comparison to others. Either you see yourself as better than someone and you get 41 , or you see someone else as better than you and you feel like all your hard work is for 42 . It is a fool’s game. Not one of us is exactly 43 . The only direct and honest comparison is 44 yourself. Everything else is apples to oranges.
My opinion is that you are only 45 to compare yourself to someone else if their life 46 is the same as your own. Good luck finding that 47 . And one thing is for sure. No matter how hard you work and how dedicated you are, there will always be someone who can run a little faster, jump a little higher, score a little better or look a little nicer in a swimsuit. And if there’s not, you can 48 someone is coming up fast 49 you. So how can you always win in life? Become your best 50 .
Having an image of your most recent past limits is the perfect thing to 51 you to the next level. If you ran 7 flights of stairs yesterday, then do 8 today. Who 52 if the guy next to you did 15? It doesn’t make a bit of 53 . You are a more 54 person today than you were yesterday. Your own 55 is all you need.
A.patient B.strict C.content D.concerned
A.stronger B.better C.lazier D.wiser
A.inside B.out C.for D.up
A.accurate B.useful C.careful D.powerful
A.end B.best C.convenience D.side
A.satisfied B.busy C.inspired D.lazy
A.nothing B.fun C.sure D.success
A.equal B.unique C.alike D.common
A.within B.by C.for D.of
A.instructed B.allowed C.directed D.suggested
A.situation B.position C.occasion D.accommodation
A.game B.match C.friend D.enemy
A.conclude B.bet C.announce D.declare
A.before B.beside C.below D.behind
A.assistant B.competitor C.coach D.teacher
A.contribute B.expose C.push D.devote
A.cares B.says C.wonders D.asks
A.effort B.sense C.difference D.change
A.successful B.happy C.lucky D.fit
A.benefit B.progress C.habit D.result
After 21 years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping the spark (火花) of love alive. I started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife’s 26 .
The other woman that my 27 wanted me to visit was my mother, who has been a widow (寡妇) for 19 years, but the 28 of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only 29 . That night I called to invite her to go out for 30 and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you 31 ?” she asked. My mother is the type of woman who 32 that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be 33 to pass some time with you,” I responded. “Just the 34 of us.” She thought about it for a moment, then said, “I would like that very much.”
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and 35 . My mother took my arm 36 she were the First Lady. During the dinner we had an agreeable 37 — nothing extraordinary — but 38 recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we 39 the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll 40 with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed. “How was your dinner 41 ?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.
A few days later my mother 42 a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do 43 for her. At that moment I 44 the importance of saying in time “I LOVE YOU” and giving our loved ones the time that they 45 .
A.thought B.belief C.idea D.opinion
A.father B.children C.mother D.wife
A.demands B.pleasures C.anxieties D.commands
A.unusually B.frequently C.occasionally D.immediately
A.dinner B.a walk C.some fresh air D.a while
A.well B.good C.safe D.bad
A.guesses B.imagines C.supposes D.suspects
A.necessary B.pleasant C.proper D.possible
A.two B.three C.four D.five
A.cheap B.comfortable C.cool D.tasty
A.in case B.now that C.as if D.so that
A.trouble B.conversation C.silence D.experiment
A.catching up on B.finding out C.making sure D.working out
A.missed B.enjoyed C.remembered D.watched
A.eat out B.go out C.run out D.keep out
A.party B.dance C.hour D.date
A.heard of B.suffered from C.died of D.recovered from
A.nothing B.anything C.something D.everything
A.accepted B.doubted C.considered D.understood
A.win B.deserve C.spend D.waste
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